Have you ever met someone who only showed love to you or others out of personal responsibility? Whether you’ve experienced this yourself or have seen it manifested in the relationships of others, we are all too familiar with a fake version of love.
Now I don’t know about you, but that’s definitely not the kind of love that I want to experience in my relationships. I want my wife’s treatment of me to be genuine and sincere. I desire my daughter’s response to my parenting to be filled with gratitude and appreciation. I hope that my friends truly enjoy their time spent with me and are not simply faking it in order to be nice.
The reality is, sometimes our relationships do experience these negative side effects and it never feels good. None of us want to face the fact that sometimes our love for others is not always reciprocated. Doesn’t it make you wonder whether God feels the same way at times?
You see, there’s a distinct difference between knowing God intellectually and knowing him personally. We can have all the Bible knowledge in the world and not necessarily have an intimate relationship with God. What’s interesting is that you can have knowledge of him without love, but typically, if you really love God, you will seek to know him more completely. If you love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength (Matthew 22:37-38), you would naturally seek to learn more about him.
Also, an unwavering commitment to serving God and submitting to his will usually only stems from a deep-seated desire to nurture an intimate relationship with him. The more personal we make our walk with God, the more likely we are to trust and believe in him and his goodness. The entirety of the Bible reflects God’s desire to be close to his children and for us to look at him as our Father and guide. A Christian can only do that if they are committed to making their faith a personal one. The most alarming evidence that God desires an intimate relationship with us can be found in the book of Matthew:
“21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’”
I can’t imagine how terrible it would feel if I were to hear those words from Christ. “I never knew you,” says that we never took the time to really get to know God. We never took advantage of the opportunities to speak with him in prayer or grow closer to him through his word. It means that we were too busy being prideful and living our own lives when God just wanted us to feel loved like his dear children.
Ask yourself today whether or not you’ve truly desired and nurtured a relationship with God. Resolve to make your walk with him more personal and I know you’ll soon enjoy the fruits of that beautiful relationship.